Tuesday, January 19, 2010

Libby's Birth Story

This story was shared by the father- his view of how things unfolded... quite a surprise ending to be sure!

Jen and I went to bed about 11:15 to 11:30 on Thursday night, November 19, 2009. I had just fallen asleep when Jen says "Jim?" in a strong, clear voice. I said "Yes?" and woke up. Jen informs me that her water just broke. I said "Are you sure?" She informed me that she was pretty darn sure. We turned the lights on and checked the bed and there was a nice little puddle, then she stood up and we got her a towel, because she was dripping everywhere she stood or walked. She wet through two pairs of pajamas/sweat pants in about half an hour. Jen said "What should we do?" and I suggested that she call our doula and ask for advice. Jen calls and talks to her (each time Jen called someone during the birth experience it was on speaker phone so I could also hear the conversation). Our doula asks if Jen if having contractions. Jen was not having any contractions. She suggests that Jen get back in bed and rest if she can because she will have a long day on Friday laboring and pushing to birth Libby. She also suggests that we call Jen’s midwife, to ask her what she thinks that we ought to do. Jen calls her midwife and the conversation goes about like the one with our doula – "Is Jen having contractions?" – No; "Okay, then get back in bed and get some rest because you will need energy for tomorrow for labor."

Wednesday, January 13, 2010

A note of appreciation for Teresa

Dear Teresa,

Many many thanks for today's help. I cannot express in words my gratitude
to you.

The way that my wife was relaxed and comforted through her birth and later
was priceless. I will also send you some pictures once I download them.

Thanks again,

V